Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
2 min readJan 18, 2023

Attitude is invisible, but it gives wings to our strength.
We go ahead, withdraw, or remain neutral on any issue depending on our attitude. Attitude is difficult to describe, but this is the force behind our expressing feelings, recalling memories, or uttering words. 
Attitude does not appear all of a sudden. It takes shape by taking cues from home, school, colleges, mentors, and the social context as a whole. 
Attitude is, indeed, an identity of an individual. It becomes obsolete after passing certain times because other things never remain the same, not even for months or years. 
Many of us are not judging our own attitudes fairly. We ignore our own deficiencies. We don’t feel awkward, looking to be less than others, in important areas, decades after decades. 
In most instances, we are not habitually aware of the positive sides of issues. If one thing goes wrong, we get a major setback and strongly deny going forward.
We are expecting more from others, ignoring constraints on their parts. This is an unfair attitude, but we stick to it for a longer period of time. 
If money is the top priority, it remains so. It is a matter of attitude. We ignore other essential aspects of respectful living. 
Attitude is nurtured, and we may amend it as and when required. Sadly, we accept it as it is at the cost of losing many attainable things in our lives. 
We are intelligent. This merit remains folded when we have an attitude like rigidity, an erratic approach, or a high ego. 
Let the attitude itself be a strength and not a drawback in our lifestyles.

Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

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