Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
3 min readDec 16, 2023

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Dare to tell the truth, which is not sweet.
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Relationship matters. Self-image is to be protected. Self-well-being is at the core of what we do. The feeling of stagnation that makes the individual motionless is rampant. Progress in any field is sought by all of us, but it remains just a dream for the majority. Leadership drives the masses, and we force others to accept our views. We yearn for acceptance of who I am. We normally dislike being isolated. All these dimensions appear to have a meaningful effect on the personality of any individual.
But the whole scheme of things is meaningless when we are not truthful in our feelings, words, and actions. Telling the harsh truth is the business of a few of us, but without a grain of doubt, those people are the backbones who are creating social order in the right direction.
Why is it so difficult to tell the truth? The answer is quite simple. We intend to be friendly at all costs. We are afraid of losing our relationship. We are fearful that we will be disliked by many. We are not ready to be at odds in groups, smaller or larger. We insist on smoothness in whatever we do. We focus on immediate gain, not distant and more durable benefits.
If someone lives in a situation where they are less connected with others, they rarely encounter the consequences of expressing what is right, as they influence only the smallest circle. They are engaged in their occupation so deeply that they are uncaring of what is going on in their surroundings.
As people are largely following how to get recognized, establish their own influence, and be materially rich, they are not bothering with the costs society is paying for our manipulated greatness. In such a scenario, the space for truthfulness and openness is sure to shrink.
Be truthful. It is a strong message, but there are hardly a few takers. Be ready to pay the costs of telling the truth. Bear awkwardness when many are on the other side. Face isolation, if it happens. But never accept what is likely to damage the well-being of the masses in the long run. Being truthful is a matter of courage. It is a sign of real greatness. Be a loser today to be a winner forever.
Experiences are a mix of many things. Let the realities be significant in the whole picture to make an impact and create waves of goodness to occupy large spaces in our lives.
All our actions are to be precious and memorable. Don’t succumb to fears, imaginary or real. We are born to handle the toughness of all the days we live. A carpenter rubs the roughness of pieces of wood to make them smooth before making them part of furniture. Roughness in our paths is meant to make us mature and enhance our capabilities. Without facing the roughness, we can’t know the value of real pictures.
Being truthful does not mean we are correct everywhere. We must check the details of anything before telling others. We must realize that most things are subjective, not objective. Truthfulness is objective to the extent it is discovered. It may be something different, as people are engaged in discovering higher-level facts.
Be a truth-seeker in all our endeavors. It is possible if we go a little deeper. Many of our traits are shaped correctly when we practice showing the true picture to the world. Studies suggest that the meaning of our lives is hidden, and the process of truthfulness makes it open.

Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

Written by Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

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