Do you nourish the problems of life, hoping to get them resolved magically?

Problems expand and are not addressed by talking about scenarios and episodes.

Imagination of life without problems is to live a life in a dream and illusion. 
We are born into a world of problems and leave this world with problems—maybe of different sorts. A problem is solved with spaces for new problems. 
Before discerning how problems emerge and get enlarged, accept that they are not unexpected and not surprising things in human lives. 
 
Problems are to push you forward by using your energy and mental power, and they are not to defeat your purpose in life. 
Problems create situations to look into the matter differently. They awaken you to decide on new paths. 
I was getting panicky when facing real-life situations, but gradually I came to understand that they were the causes of our progress in my variety of efforts to live meaningfully. 
Problems have been proven to be essential factors in my being fractionally better in education, profession, or socialization at different times of my life. 
Doubts, uncertainty, obstacles, messy conditions, and threats are all hues of life’s games. Nevertheless, they are signals to go ahead consciously. They will never be a cause to destroy the designs you are trying to shape. 
During tough times, you must internalize the fact that challenges are opportunities for self-discovery and scaling up to a new high in life. 
Problems force you to reconsider how to change from within and muster the courage to keep going. 
You are the pilot of your life and capable of changing the direction and even dominions. 
It is always rewarding when you refuse to surrender to fear, criticism, and apparent loss. 
Problems provide backgrounds to redefine the circumstances. 
People are habitually crying when something goes wrong. It is an ordinary phenomenon. Extraordinary people just examine the reasons for failures and build up new designs on the debris of what is lost. 
"We know what we are but do not know what we may be." William Shakespeare 
Normally, people lack the skills to solve problems. When there is a focus on solutions, they get the clue. 
This is the narrative I intend to highlight in this article. 
The majority of us just explain the situations, missing the opportunity to prescribe some solutions. 
Nourishing problems are sure to leave you high and dry, no matter if you are the gainer or loser. 
Most of the time, hammering just at the right point places the machines in order without opening the parts. A student scores at the top just by adding hours of practising in place of memorizing. It is the solution to the problem—not scoring high in previous attempts. 
Leveraging technology is solving many issues of the era of manual operations in all activities. 
"If you do not produce, you will not thrive, no matter how skilled or talented you are." Cal Newport 
You can produce only when you overcome the problems. Problems are to show the paths, that are, exciting and rewarding. 
Many people deliberately ignore the facts, like incompetence, misleading information, and things going against their wishes, hoping to keep others in the dark. 
Remember that you can ignore the facts, but you cannot erase them forever until something is done to change the conditions. 
Copying, comparisons, theories, and rigidity amplify our life problems. A person must seek out his originality, which is usually loaded with problem-solving skills. 
The world is changing rapidly, but subjectivity remains. Something is yellow as compared to blue things in the adjacent. I am content with what I have as compared to money-minded individuals. 
It is said that problems come with solutions, but only a few hold the magic of identifying what is prohibiting their progress. 
If you are thinking like others, practically, you are not thinking. 
Think differently to reach where others are unable to march. 
"Every life has a measure of sorrow, and sometimes this is what awakens us." Steven Tyler 
SUM UP

Every day, there is a pouring of problems. Don’t deny them. 
Problems are to be addressed. Believe you may do something. 
If you know what the real voyage of life is, problems are like fuel to keep you energized. 
Problems are to make you stronger. 
If you are using force to ensure silence, you are living in a fool’s paradise. 
What is happening is describing the realities of life, and it is in your power to change them.