Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
3 min readJul 7, 2023

How to create conducive conditions
The circumstances are not favourable. We are waiting for appropriate moments. Outside forces are working against us. Our background is not rosy. Discrimination is the order of the day. We have to accept their conditions to fit in. These are common narratives that we hear and believe.
 Since early childhood, we are conditioned in such a way that we ignore opportunities again and again to explore ourselves. We focus on barriers. We discuss problems. We feel inferior. Surprisingly, only a few of us agree that nothing remains in a constant position.
Poor people are getting rich, and vice versa. Ignorant individuals enhance their awareness bit by bit. People are meeting ever-increasing needs by dint of their hard efforts. Thus, changes occur in all spheres of our activities.
Conditions have transformed drastically as compared to a decade ago. It is visible to all. But the majority of us are clueless about how it happened.
Now the question is whether we can create the right conditions to suit our growth and forwardness. Yes, it is possible. We are not born to fit in, but to stand out. Fitting in shows our unwillingness to change. All individuals possess separate traits, and many of these traits are nurtured as we come across the outside environment. Even brothers and sisters are different on many counts in a family. However, they grow and achieve what they perceive.
The Next question is how to exhibit our uniqueness. For this, we have to create conditions for our progress, peace, and prosperity. We have to work on our strengths. We have to count our advantages. We have to accept challenges as opportunities, not only in principle but also in their application.
We are physically fit. It is a strength. We are in the company of people with positive mindsets. It is a strength. Our place is well connected to developed centres. It is a strength. We are educated. It is a strength. So working on strengths pays dividends faster than living with weaknesses. Once we insist on being punctual, laziness is bound to disappear. It has double benefits.
The moment we realise that we have to make our lives better than those of thousands around us, we embrace all challenges and covert them to our paradigms of higher social orbits.
When we love our physique, our intelligence, our willpower, our consciousness, and the soundness of our senses, it becomes easy to upgrade them systematically and unfold our potential. Only in concept, someone is feeling inferior. The reality is quite different.
We are learning more languages and new skills. In reality, we are creating conditions. We are visiting new places. We are examining social narratives; we are creating conditions. We are expanding networking. We are searching for the root causes of persistent problems. We are creating conditions.
Discomfort is the fuel for creating new conditions. Take pain today for the gain of tomorrow. Difficulties pave the way for progress. Don’t be in the same situation year after year.
 Last question. Are we ready to create new conditions while passing through all of our present environments? Most of us play it safe, stay safe, and avoid even tinier changes. They will be at the bottom of the social pyramid forever because of their own choices.
Believe it or not, we are capable of redesigning the odd conditions in our favour and making our presence remarkable in our personal, professional, and social lives.

Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

Written by Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

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