Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
3 min readFeb 1, 2024
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Only you can be your best choice.
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Is there something new in the above title? Opinions vary from yes to no and even in between.

The majority are keen to know what others can do for them. It is an allusion.
We play different roles depending on what we choose, and the aggregate result is large because of the cumulative effect.
People are born dependent on initial care, but gradually they become capable of handling their affairs according to their own choices.
People, unaware of their power, have chosen to be like birds without wings.
Now look at some points to ponder how we are resonating with the choices we have.
One: Life is precious, and so our choices must be super precious. Such people are at the forefront of making things happen.
Two: The world is ready to give you the spaces you intend to occupy. The winners on this earth believe in striving.
Three: It is ruinous to believe that others are prescribing the best for you.
Four: Once you find the causes of being in the last row, it is upon you to move forward.
Five: When we, as a group or individual, accept ourselves as inferior, superiors have no problems.
Six: We can give more to the world than what we enjoy as natural blessings, regardless of who we are.
Seven: There is some meaning to our existence. Only you can decode that meaning.
Eight: Circumstances do not make the man; they reveal him to himself, says James Allen.
Nine: Many of us are not solution-minded. We unnecessarily depend on others to ensure our prosperity.
Ten: Only one trait that influences others as our plus or minus points is our behaviour. Behavior is our outer expression, which is largely guided by our chains of thought.
Eleven: We need much less than what we think we need, says Maya Angelou.
Twelve: We are not truthful to ourselves in many ways. We are lacking integrity, keeping the outside world in the dark. Many of us have no idea how we spend our time—something useful or just useless.
Thirteen: We often forget that action is the only answer to our suffocation in any form. Action is life, and inaction mostly makes us inert.
Fourteen: We are not challenging our status quo. Rather, make excuses.
Fifteen: Anybody is the architect of his or her life. A farmer designs his farm, and a housemaker contributes to the smooth running of home affairs. All are equally important in their fields.
Sixteen: All individuals do not have a uniform ability to spot opportunities.
Seventeen: We are not rewarding ourselves.
Eighteen: We must know no one is perfect.
Nineteen: There is no monopoly on ideas we generate. Ideas may be a turning point in our lives. Ideas are our latent power. In the end, you will be glad to know that it is your idea.
Twenty: Change your perception, and you are working on how to shape your future.
Twenty-one: The world is telling you many lies. Examine them.
Twenty-two: We fought for many things in the past, but they are not of any worth today. Thus, there are natural deaths of many discrepancies as we move forward.
Twenty-three: It is learned that musk deer spend their time in search of the scent (from outside) that comes from a gland located in their bodies. Similarly, our power to shape our lives is in our whole being, but we seek this power in the outside world.
Twenty-four: The expansion of awareness facilitates a person to be larger than circumstances.
Twenty-five: You can learn a lot when you stretch yourself every day.
Twenty-six: It is never too late to dream.
Twenty-seven: Every phase of your career, profession, or engagement will require a different you.
Twenty-eight: Every morning brings a new day. Choose the best.
Twenty-nine: Identify the core area of your expertise and do your best to be distinguished.
Thirty: Your conscience is the compass of your life.
Thirty-one: see that your anxiety is not killing you. Rather, let it be a source to ignite your dormant mind.
Thirty-two: You have to conquer your fears of any sort and see how your life unfolds.
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Finally, get yourself what you can be, and it is within your reach.

Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

Written by Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

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