Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
2 min readNov 14, 2022

Take the decision to move beyond
Our whole life is the cumulative effect of taking or not taking decisions from time to time. Initially, it is parenting that takes care of keeping us on the right track. As our areas of operation expand, taking decisions becomes tedious. Individuals who are dependent on others are reluctant to take independent decisions. The ability to take decisions is suppressed. Such people stay stuck in one position for a long time. Thus, it is imperative to cultivate the habit of making decisions from the earliest stages of life. It is not necessary that all our decisions be right every time. The decisions may be modified or even altered depending upon prevailing circumstances. There is no room for regret at any point in time over erroneous decisions. The best course is to exercise another option. For any reason, whatever domain is chosen, there is unlimited scope to go above and beyond. There are no end points, even in the methods of teaching at the elementary stages. Adding new dimensions is always an option. When many options are available, making an appropriate decision is really tough. We take many factors into account, which may turn out in line with our assumptions or may happen otherwise. We have to go with some degree of uncertainty in all decisions, big or small. When our values are clear to us, decisions are taken without hassle. Nevertheless, a decision that appears to be appropriate today may turn into a faulty decision with the passing of time. An admission taken at a reputed institution may not guarantee smooth sailing in the days ahead. It is not wise to take decisions based on one or two bitter experiences in the past. In any situation, our capabilities play a major role in turning weak decisions into strong outcomes. Be careful about the opinions of individuals who are not aware of the full picture or who are talking on the basis of a fixed mindset. Regardless of the circumstances, be in a position to say that it is our decisions and not those of others. Decision is pivotal to all success or failure at various stages of our life. Gather necessary information before taking a decision. Barring emergencies, when conditions are disturbed, take time to decide courses of action. Say no to ego, revenge, showing strength, or other negative factors while taking an action.

Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

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