Things around us are subjective.
We always instantly conclude what is wrong or right, fair or unfair, and relate all our actions to it, ignoring the fact that things around us are subjective. Subjective means how we look at events, situations, and expectations based on our own beliefs, ideas, prejudices, opinions, and feelings. Our own aims and ambitions in life have been subjective from beginning to end.
We have been trained since childhood to know the definitions, narratives, designs, and norms. We apply them in real-life situations and often get ourselves confused. It occurs because our plans, strategies, and execution lines are all subjective.
When something goes wrong or does not yield the desired result within a certain time frame, we immediately label it "bad luck," which is actually a misnomer.
We try to judge everything absolutely when things are subjective. We get stuck between two poles, namely subjective and objective.
The design of the universe is objective, like the speed of light, climatic patterns, and interdependence of living organisms. When our schemes of things mismatch with the designs of nature, the latter prevails, and we infer that it is "unfair". It is not at all discrimination but a part of bigger processes.
Put it differently. Change is the law of the universe. When we resist change and apply obsolete formulas, even our sincere efforts do not translate into better outcomes. Simple life appears to be full of odds. We forget that we have to be aligned with changing circumstances.
All individuals define their ways of living, keeping aside what even their spouses or parents wish. All are finally self-made. Say someone is in love with smoking despite being aware that it is hugely harmful. What is this? He has his own definition of pleasure and its long-term consequences.
Some people have more friends, while many others are not so open. These two groups differ in how they look at the pros and cons of friendship.
Once we get a setback, we have to analyse the reasons. In practise, even the amount of effort required to achieve the same goal varies. It is a design, and we have to create our own space in the given design without comparison or frustration.
The design of the universe is supreme. We are like the tiniest drop of water in the ocean. We are an important figure, but it depends on what we do, accepting the realities of the larger arrangements of nature invariably.
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