We are more inclined to please others.
We live in different cultures with different standards, conditions, and beliefs. Thus, we are guided by separate guidelines and codes of conduct, and the variations are too wide to focus on the similarities among humans across the globe. 
Nevertheless, the principles of humanity are obvious and vividly applicable in all geographic locations. These principles are the foundations of our coexistence. 
Among the elementary principles of living together are keeping our morals high and loving all living and nonliving entities around us. Be just to all of our contacts, far or near, and see how the laws of humanity operate. 
When we follow the norms, there is no reason to please a few and displease many. Our inclination to make some people happy arises only when, knowingly or unknowingly, we ignore the matrix of prosperity for all. 
Embracing wrongs is never the right path in human life. It happens only when we are interested in our own benefits, even at the cost of causing harm to others. 
We get more when we learn to live on our own strengths. The formula of a symbiotic relationship is a universal paradigm. We unnecessarily depend on others because we do not believe in our own abilities to be performers. Seeking cooperation is desirable, but extra dependence on others is a sign of weak people. 
Study the workings of bees as they move from flower to flower and create hives, and learn from them the benefits of hard work, sincerity, division of labour, and no clash. 
Yes, life is random time and again. The troubles are meant to make us stronger. As we know, disturbances in the sea have produced more skilled sailors.