Wrongs happen for correction and newness in living, not for overriding.

Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
3 min readNov 19, 2024

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Untoward happens, and we are broken and restless. Isn’t it?

One day, misery appears, and I suddenly conclude that all dreams are shattered. The next day, I try to sustain. Many stories of such kind are replayed just to restore my thoughts to accept realities.
As time passes, it strikes my mind that people have suffered a lot more than me, and they have conquered the terrible scenario and were out of the wild after months or years. 
 
In the world of suffering and losing webs of winning, I am not alone. It is a part of sensible living. 
This line of thinking redesigns the whole of my world. 
 
We classify a happening, an event, a situation, a threat, or a failure as wrong while measuring them on the scale of our mental frame.
Digging explains that wrongdoings are mostly subjective, and it is almost as usual and everywhere. 
Wrongdoings are transformed into crises if they are overlooked. 
 
A crisis occurs, no matter how wise a person is. 
While crises surface, there are two options.
1. Telling—it is a fate. I am unlucky. 
2. Making efforts not only to regain a reasonable position but to create a new standard. 
In the first case, negatives in our minds are dominant. In the second case, it is acceptance of universal norms and the need for readjustment of things afresh. 
In any role, we face uncertainties and ambiguity. Our ability to deal with them decides our climb or fall. It is so simple. 
Untoward happens despite being alert, leaving nothing to chance. It happens for reasons our minds have failed to capture "other wrongs" in real-time. 
A person, though driving carefully, came to collide because an animal came on the road all of a sudden. 
We normally term it an accident or hazard. 
 
 
There is no consequence without a cause. Playing with an instrument is a cause, and music is a consequence. 
Our learning is a cause, and understanding is a consequence. 
Most of the time, we deal with consequences without reaching to the areas of causes. So failings recur. Bouncing back remains out of reach. 
A touching example: 
There is a collective responsibility to keep air and water clean and surroundings green. Some people are negligent and cause the whole spectrum of human lives to suffer. 
In reverse, an example of own creation: 
At the individual level, if someone is not serious about being physically fit, then the cause and consequence are that person alone. 
All excuses of such a person are hollow because things are under his control. 
Further explanation:
 
■ For any wrong to be corrected, we have to have a clear vision. Vision integrates many personal qualities to look forward, though it is a threat to folks all around. 
■ Awareness is fundamental to keeping a person going onward despite the negativity in people around. 
 
■ There is no room for pessimism in any culture or condition.
■ We are to do something good every day. It accumulates over time and neutralizes the dance of the devil without a miss. 
■ No panic. No repetition of untoward. It is time to take lessons and necessary actions. 
■ Negativity moves much faster than something positive. So, continue practising positivity. Negativity erases, but slowly. 
■ Damage occurs in fractions of a minute, but correction takes months, years, or decades. 
■ It is responsible individuals who are bothering to address social evils, and they are determined to provide better conditions.

FINAL VIEWS:
 
 
● Untoward happens to awaken us to come close to realities and make a new beginning. 
● It is difficult to sit comfortably in uncomfortable situations, but there are always ways to recover from what happened. 
● Be solution-oriented, not ignorant of systematic damages to family and social fabric. 
● All wrongs are not our creation. But we often overestimate the consequences and invite frustration.

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Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui
Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

Written by Nesar Ahmad Siddiqui

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